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Every Wednesday I get to dissect a sex or relationship dream for my friends at  Em and Lo: Sex, Love and Everything In Between  This week’s dream is from a guy who died…

I dreamed that I died and I ended up in a place where there were other people walking around. Everyone knew we were dead and there were buildings and rooms, it looked like the world we live in today. I kept feeling like I urgently needed to come back to the living, especially go back to my girlfriend, and I was desperately looking for a way to come back to life. There were people there I knew but I don’t remember who they are and someone told me they knew how to come back to life. He told me when an old man whistled (or maybe it was hummed) there is a chance to get through.

I don’t remember what happened next but we did something to get through whatever that was and I was underwater deep under the sea on an old wooden pirate ship. Everyone was dead aboard the ship and it was carrying me to up to the surface. They knew I was on board with this other person and were trying to catch us and get rid of us and we somehow disabled the ship and escaped.

From this point on I don’t know what happened to the other person but next thing I know I’m alive, I feel a huge pressure in my chest and I’m going to see my girlfriend and family. I find her and my family and I’m with her and I think I’m holding her and all the pressure is released from my chest and a sensation of relief comes over me. I don’t remember how long I was dead for though, could have been 6 days, 6 weeks, or 6 years. (Kind of eerie I would remember it like that, 6-6-6). That was all that happened but I remember thinking in my dream how my body was in perfect condition and I thought how maybe it should have been decayed or rotting but it wasn’t. I hope you can help, I’ve never died then come back to life in a dream before! Thanks!

Lauri: Dreaming of one’s own death can be very concerning, but you may be happy to know it’s also pretty common. Death, to the dreaming mind, is connected to something changing or ending in waking. In what way has your life — as you now know it — come to an end or changed? Is there something you have had to let go of? Any issue you have had to lay to rest? Or perhaps you’ve become dead to the world in some way. Have you become cold and unemotional?

Throughout the dream you are trying to come back to life so you can get back to your girlfriend. What is it you are trying to revive in the real world? Did your relationship go through some turmoil and are you trying to get it back to the way it was? Or are you trying to get yourself back to the way you were so you can enjoy your current relationship? That may be what the old pirate ship is about. Ships in dreams are often connected to a relationship. Is there an old relationship that went horribly wrong and that caused you to submerge your anxieties rather than deal with them?

Long story short, it seems that you may have gotten something off your chest, hence the release of pressure from your chest in the dream. Your body is in perfect condition because, despite what you thought, you did not sustain any serious emotional damage from the past. Looks like you are ready to live again!

Don’t let your dreams frighten you!  Let them enlighten you!!  Grab yourself a copy of one of my books and you’ll easily understand your dreams every morning and get a HUGE edge in life.

“All my friends come to me now when they want to understand their dreams.  Your books have made me very popular!!”   – Gina, Syracuse, NY

There is no dream more disturbing than dreaming of your own child’s death.  The experience and the emotions are so real and it is such a relief to finally wake up… but then the horror sets in AGAIN as you wonder if your dream was showing you a glimpse of the future!

You’d be surprised how common this dream is.  Someone seems to call in with some version of this dream almost everytime I am on the air.  The other day I was on the air on Kat Country 103 in Modesto, CA with DJ Walker (as I am every Wednesday at 7am) when a woman called in with a seemingly innocuous dream about giant quarters that suddenly turned deadly…

As you can see, her dream was nothing to fear and was, in fact, showing her how important it is to make sure her daughter doesn’t feel left out as she adjusts to her new little sister and Mommy going back to work.

If you ever dream of the unthinkable happening to your child, fear not.  Simply ask yourself what changes is your child going through.  Have they reached a milestone?  How are they different now than they were a few weeks or even days ago.  Do this and you’ll find that, yeah, that younger child I used to know is no longer… but now I have a bigger smarter child on my hands!!

Any dream of death is merely a psychological means of bidding adieu to the old so that you can embrace the new.

Don’t let your dreams frighten you!  Let them enlighten you!!  Grab yourself a copy of one of my books and you’ll easily understand your dreams every morning and get a HUGE edge in life.

“I just wanted to say that the few dreams I have had that I have interpreted with your books have had substantial impact in my life.  I don’t know what I would do without them.” 
  – Becky, Ocala, FL

The death of a loved one is something we all fear and never want to face. So why do we have to experience this dreaded event in our dreams? The natural reaction to these dreams is to wonder if we are glimpsing the near future. Is God or the universe preparing me for what is to come??

Heck no! Below is an example of how a death dream is actually trying to help a young woman improve her relationship with her mom. This is from my appearance on The Tony Scott show on Majic 104.9 in St. Louis, MO. Oh! And keep on listening because the conversation takes quite an unexpected turn!!

Death of a loved one, strange sex partners, weird things happening to your body… It’s ALL in there!  Grab your copy of So, What Did You Dream Last Night?  and understand your dreams like never before!